I’m not defending them at all, but again I think that you might be mixing the alt right and incels a little bit. Or the red pill, which does support prostitution because they consider it more honest because “women are all trying to get whatever they can out of men, this is open about it, blah blah blah.” It sounds like you’re saying that they really want women to not have any autonomy, and thus they hate sex work because sex workers have autonomy. I think that is one line of logic but it isn’t how the majority of them see it. They talk about society giving them money or legalizing prostitution so that they can live the second filled lives they think all young women are living. Yes they may fetishize women with no experience, but just like pick up artists that is one concern among many.