ok I'm gonna sound harsh but some men need to hear this shit. this goes for OP and any person, make or female. that's let's their significant others go thru their phones (when they clearly are uncomfortable with it but too "shy" (I'll use real trigger words soon don't worry) to say anything. here goes:

you put up with it? no offense, grow some fucking balls. it never kicks off? you mean she never stops going through it or asking you to go through it? because you don't have a spine and are letting someone go through your personal belongings! I don't care how close you are to anyone everybody deserves some privacy to a degree.

good Lord man, you might not cheat, but are getting cheated on fucking guaranteed. not only because of the spineless helpless behavior you display, but because those types that accuse/assume you're cheating are typically doing already and want to find it on you so they don't feel bad. but they don't feel bad anyway since they deep throat strange dick and use those same lips to tell you I love you.

I got off track, let me rephrase: this is my fucking phone and if you go thru it, then check out my door because you'll be going thru that as well (walking obviously, not thrown through it). and also seriously she CLEARLY doesn't trust you, what an awesome relationship. kick her the fuck out, once that suspicious shit starts happening, the relationship is long gone brother.

to the ones on here who I can only imagine are saying "i have nothing to hide so I couldn't care less if they go through it". are you okay with government installing cameras in your home too since you have nothing to hide? and yes it's exactly the same thing.

TL;DR: grow some balls. tell them that your personal privacy on your phone is your business alone and if they don't trust you, then they can get the fuck out of your house.

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