How do you cope when you are an insecure loner, and you see everyone around you laughing and making friends?

Your insecurities are fears. Start doing what your afraid of, gradually, overtime, you will begin to get out of your insecure loner phase. Its just a phase if you actively try to best your fear. Stop putting an emphasis on what people think of you. Fuck them, everyone lives in their own fucked up universe, who cares what they think. What they think doesn't matter for shit, adopt that mentality. When you dont give a fuck about what people think of you its easier to make friends. You can be yourself and not have to worry because if they dont like you they can go fuck themselves and if they do tada youre not a loner anymore. So what if you fail, youre in the exact same spot as when you started. So what if you get rejected? No fear, do not feel bad for failing be proud that you had the courage to try. And keep trying. You just need to take the first step. Goodluck

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