Ah, you have a point there but the scale of people getting brain damage from walking into a bar or similar circumstances pales in comparison to people being drugged and raped.

So not only are you the authority on what's allowed to be funny and what isn't, but you are also the arbiter of what is traumatic and what isn't. The implication of a TBI doesn't bother you, so it's fine to joke about, but when something does bother you, it's off limits.

You aren't a good person for thinking rape is bad. The vast, vast, vast majority of people hold that opinion. You are just one of the minority of people who is enough of a narcissist to think the world should cater to your tastes in comedy.