How to deal with emotions about a partner who’s “Just being honest”…

I am still figuring out where on the ENM spectrum I land on and what type of relationships I’m trying to cultivate

Then you should not be giving any commitments. You should be dating casually until you figure out what you want.

Am I being too sensitive?

Yes. It sounds like you are not ready to be in a relationship with someone who talks about ENM and sex factually and directly.

Next time, talk about sex before you start having sex with a person. Get to know her and what kind of sex she likes and what kind of language she uses. Figure out a basic level of (in)compatibility before you are in the middle of a sexual-emotional situation.

/r/nonmonogamy Thread