How do you deal with a family that think you're not ready for kids, even though you're only a couple of years away from 30??

She should know by now of she has a toxic family. Since that hasn't been mentioned, it's safe to assume she was blindsided by this reaction. Which means she should probably have some self reflection as to why they would react this way.

I was just saying that it's okay to not console everyone who needs advice here and it's okay to question things. Sometimes it can be hard to see glaring truths about ourselves.

My examples were literally just examples. I wasn't saying they were true, but could be possible. Since her response to my other question was to be jealous about her younger cousin having rich parents who help, there are clearly some issues she is dealing with and not being upfront with.

What's the point of asking for advice if OP can't honest with the problem at hand? It would warrant all advice useless.

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