How do you deal with knowing many others have come before you

The only plus about sleeping with someone who is "experienced" they tend to be more open minded and can show you a good time

It's actually a woman talking about someone else, could be a guy or girl. They weren't explicit.

Sure, but two people can gain experience together, which is more fun, at least it was for me. I'll take someone that still has an intimate and not-casual disposition regarding sex over a road worn veteran that can suck a golf ball through a fire hose. Without sounding pervy, it is very common for men to appreciate a certain of feminine innocence in women. Sorta like how many women like masculine men.

The age also wasn't brought up. Nowadays, 20 is an average to low number for anyone pushing 30 that hasn't been married or in just a few very long term relationships that covered most of their sexually active years. I'm in my early 40s, if I met a similarly-aged, single woman with a legit (not lying) partner count under 20, I'd probably swallow my dentures.

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