How to deal with letting go of an LTR, knowing she’ll go straight to pound town.

First off, don’t follow her on any social media or ever reach out to her. That’s going to make things tougher on you if you do. Remember, you need to be your own mental point of origin. It’s all about you, and what you do going forward, not her. If something is going to distract you from that, don’t do it.

I don’t fully agree with most of the TRP dudes here that give the typical “just get more chicks brah” advice. Yeah, maybe that’s what you wanna do, maybe it’s not. It would help, at least somewhat, to feel more in abundance, but you aren’t going to be happy and focused until you are focused on your path and purpose and not her (or anyone else). That is the definition of being a man. Getting chicks can be part of this, but it probably isn’t the whole thing.

Ironically, once you’re doing that, she’ll probably be hitting you up for a second chance. This advice has the side effect that not only will you find more true fulfillment, chicks in general (including your ex) will likely find you more attractive.

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