How to deal with my boyfriends mom who has memory problems?

It’s very lengthy story haha. The mom used to live in our country but for some reason thought her country would be better and went back with my boyfriends brother. Then later decided to come back because they don’t make as much money there. So they agreed to save money together and budget for an apartment but the brother is immature and the literal definition of a “fuck boy” and spends money on girls so it’s been taking long because the mom can’t rely on her money alone for a place. It all sounds stupid but since they’re my boyfriends family I don’t want to voice my opinion. September is just the magic month because that’s the month I said they should get a place by because it’s been way too long

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