Fetlife, here, random dating, Collar Space. All the munches around me and the people listed on Fetlife attending make me not want to go. 95% of all the attendees have stuff like: I'm in a pack with Steelhammer, protected by MAster Tom, kitten of Billy Bob, sister to AMberpussycat, master of blah, de blah. All of them have these lists on their profile and it is so cliquey that I just don't want to go. I'm sure it is my loss but I avoid them anyway. *shrugs I understand being poly. I understand friends. I understand trying to be safe. That looks like I have to satisfy a bus load of people to talk to you and you don't have enough time in your schedule to get to know me anyway. So, personals and random chance for me. I do want to take classes though so I'll have to just grin and bear it I guess.