How did you get over someone you had romantic feelings for ?

You need to find closure. It’s a difficult task. Was it just a realization or did this person directly tell you it was not reciprocated? Sometimes just an honest confession will liberate you. Try creating a ritual of release so you can let it go. Write all your feelings down on paper and burn it or meditate over a flower and throw the petals in a stream. Sometimes you have to effect some kind of change to reset yourself. Go on vacation. If that is not possible go out into nature and visualize what you want for yourself. Let past expectations go. If you just leave it as it is, it can be very destructive. It will ruin all your future relationships.

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