How did your wife/SO change after having children?

If I paid a therapist to listen to my issue, and they repeated back to me slightly differently allowing me to gain perspective on the issue I didn’t have previously, which then allowed me to resolve the issue, is this not

It's a fucking psychological parlor trick. You could do literally THE SAME THING by asking yourself a question out loud and then writing it down re-phrased in several different ways, working out the question until you received greater clarity on it.

These same basic psychological "hacks" can be self-applied by simply reading up more on the subject rather than paying these useless therapists.

Seeing a therapist is a lazy solution to most problems that can be addressed 100% on your own through tried, true, timeless self exploration and introspection.

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