How do you escalate during a party vs a date

There is no difference.

You start with talking, then you initiate kino and see how she is responding. If she’s okay with it continue, if she is not back up and make her more comfortable.

If you’re on a date you can be more relaxed and have fun with whatever activity is going on. It’s already implied by the fact that it’s a date that there is sexual interest. But that doesn’t mean you dont kino keep building up the tension by touching gazing into her eyes. Tonality etc..

At a party it’s more competition (more males in immediate environment) so you have to cut the bullshit with her. Make sure you work the room before hand. be a normal guy talking to everyone having fun with everyone so when you walk up to her it’s natural and she sees you in a positive light rather than being a wallflower which she will see as creepy.

You can be direct as fuck at a party. Think about it she’s dressed nice as fuck, make up hair clothes all that shit. Give her what she wants. Be that dude.

If you see a hot girl and you notice she’s bored looking or she may be looking your way you can walk up and say any of these as casually as saying “it’s a beautiful day today” in that type of tone you can say:

“Hey I saw you from the other side of the room and I thought you were gorgeous so I wanted to meet you my names ______” smiling of course

“Gotdam girl, I say this with all the respect in the world but you got a banging ass body” she’ll say thanks and then you introduce yourself check her out but not like a creep

Or *at a pool party or something Walk up and say “Hey I mean no disrespect but you have a really nice booty” she might say shut up or thanks either way introduce yourself

Or you can escalate verbally during your interaction with her like you can start by introducing yourself with one of the one’s up above and say in this instance she has big boobs and her cleavage is popping (it’s there on purpose) you can say “I’m really trying to pay attention to what you’re saying but I can’t help but look at your boobs” and laugh or say they’re so nice. Or if she has nice legs during your interaction you can be like “damn you must be working out look at those legs mmm” The idea is to communicate desire in a way that makes her comfortable. That’s why you say “no disrepect” or “I can’t help myself” this way she knows that you know you’re being direct but that you don’t want to offend her and that you understand her side of the interaction. Like if you’re nervous you can say “damn I’m nervous right now you’re so hot” or if it’s awkward be like “well this is awkward, who did you come with? “ however you’re feeling, if you express it, it will dissipate. she’ll appreciate your realness. And she’ll feel like you’re in the same world and that’s important. It’s called “statements of empathy” this shit is powerful trust me.

The common denominator here is that you’re showing interest without being a weirdo and you’re being straight up so if she’s doesn’t want you she will reject you from the get go but if she’s feeling you you just keep it moving till you’re balls deep

Hope this helps. Have fun bro and don’t be weird and too aggressive go with the girls who want you back.

Parties and dates are the same shit as far as escalation goes. Stop beating around the bush acting like a nice guy with no balls. Be a man. Don’t be shy to let them know they turn you on. And move it along with grace thats why it’s called “The art or seduction” pay attention to her she will let you know what’s going on. And also lead!! Lead the interaction!! Move that shit forward!!

Girls will only let you go as far as they want. Never force anything. Be attentive and see how she reacts to your game and kino.

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