How to escalate in a party?

Alright finally something i can help out with. Btw, i'm gonna plagiarise a lot of other stuff from the main seddit.

Basically it boils down to this A lot of posts ask how can I escalate? How could I have escalated in this situation?, etc. I think most of you know "how". What you're really doing is doubting wether or not you can. It's a lack of sexual confidence not a lack of knowing "how".

You've got to assume she wants to fuck. And on a moment by moments basis assume the next little step or move is welcome.

Its said a lot round here but women are just as much sexual creatures as men no matter what they tell you. Picture yourself at a party. Your hanging out, maybe talking to a friend and you see a girl. She struts over to you. Smiles, and says "hey".

Pretty face making eye contact up at you. Her sexy tits right in your personal space. Maybe tits brushing up against your body. Demeanor and vibe extremely feminine. She compliments you. Tells you you're handsome. Admits she likes your muscles. She touches them.

You're gonna quite enjoy that I'll assume. You're gonna literally feel it in your cock and balls.

Guess what.. she enjoys the equivalent just as much.

If you confidently walk up to her. Stand real close, casually say hi. Look her in the eyes with your handsome face. Your sexy muscles right in her personal space. Demeanor and vibe extremely masculine. You tell her she's cute. Tell her she's got a nice body. You put your hand on her hip/ass.

She reacts to that latter scenario, in a way equivalent to how you would react to the former scenario. Just as you would literally feel the former in your cock and balls, she literally feels the latter in her pussy.

Once you've talked to her for a bit, with all this sexual tension and she's still there. That means she wants more. If she didn't she would have left.

Now in terms of HS parties. Once you've established this. Its important to move the girl. Carry her around to the dance area where you have an excuse to get close. Grind her do whatever the fuck you want. Bonus: Walking around a party with a girl by your side and your hand on her hip instantly makes you more attractive.

Depending on the party/social-scene you can just kiss her right there in the middle of the dancefloor/chill room whatever. However, I know in some social circles that's a big no-no. Use an excuse to move her somewhere private (usually bedroom/outside). I usually go for a smoke cause its the perfect reason and its got some "naughty" connotations. (yeah, i know) If you don't smoke "I need some fresh air" or " I need to lie down" is fine.

After that, well its up to you kiss, fuck whatever man. But keep in mind she wants it as badly as you do. She's just better at hiding it.

/r/highseddit Thread