How do I explain to people that "men are disproportionately affected in certain ways" is not a counterpoint to feminism?

“Don’t worry, I have screenshots. So spare me the lip quivering, it’s a little much.”

Wait... what? I think you’re a little confused here. I just noticed your edits. Am I supposed to feel threatened here or something? Is that the reason why you mentioned the pictures? Did you think I was going to take it down or try to hide it? Are you trying to kink shame me into a corner here? I... don’t quite get the logic. I’m confused. Is this supposed to be a “gotcha” moment? I’m comfortable with my kinks, you see.

If anything, I think this kind of judgmental attitude reflects poorly on you? You are not a very tolerant person, are you? You’d resort to shaming and intimidation just to get a leg up? This kind of tactic contributes nothing to your argument, and only makes me hate you more.

Please respect other people’s kinks. This is elementary, come on now...

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