How do you greet the bio parent during drop offs?

We deal with pickups/dropoffs at the school so we rarely interact with BM.

BM has a bizarre work schedule so she just texts us when she has a day or two off, then she gets SD12 from school. I'll go pick her up from school then when BM has to go back to work.

If she does stop by the house, it's usually a pretty quick visit just to chat about what's been going on at our houses, make sure we're all on the same page.

Been living with my SO and SD12 for about 6 years. It's taken some work on all our parts but we've got a good rhythm now and things are pretty light and friendly. She might be at the house 5-10 min and this happens like once or twice a month.

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