How has growing up adopted affect your family dynamic?

I am disabled. That is a fact. My words need not minced. I am disabled, but I want no cure for this disability. I hope that is made clear, I even said "I digress". As you can see, I am verbose, but still need to address things of importance. To me, it is part of my identity, as is being adopted. I don't get many identiies. My birth certificate is falsified, I have no name, I know no one who is like me, I have never met someone who looks or thinks or speaks like me. Adoption was a role foisted upon my existence. I cannot separate from these identities, as I live in reality. People like me, and others, are made to be a commodity as well. We create saints. We are made to be the argument in law making that literally kills humans that breathe the same air as you, LIFE saving procedures completely sticken from practice while eugenics is often considered "ok" after a prenatal test results come back some specific way (this I am not blaming the group for, as I am unaware of your actual views on these matters). We are a twist in a movie. We have been reduced for long enough. Now we are examples to be made, as what has happened here. We are made to be prophets (in the king james bible, yea, I read it.) and we endure so so so much.

This comment is about the long long road to recovery, and that it requires a specific, educated, understanding, patient, support system. That includes a very specific type of knowledge by the council that helps. We need this support, because of exactly what has happened in this comment section.

We are born and treated as pariah and then expected to act as messiah.

Ask me about the adoption industry instead. Ask me anything other than the exact thing you claim you are not trying to do, focus in on part and not on the subject, not the person, not the reality.

Diversion isn't going to work on me, and I really will not comment to answer you. It's not the place, or time for that conversation.

I am just one voice.

/r/Adoption Thread Parent