I think you are being too judgmental and maybe not being able to control your friends behavior like your parents controlled yours is frustrating you. By the time I was your age I’d done every drug I could get my hands on besides meth and crack which I’ll never do. Then I joined the church and quit for 10 years. After they I started back on some. Weed helped so much with my depression and so did acid and mushrooms but I’m talking microdoses. Ive taken large amounts of mushrooms but I don’t see myself doing that again. Anyways I say all this to say people deal with life differently. I understand where you are coming from. But you gotta let people live their lives too.