How do I know if what I want out of a relationship is unrealistic? When do you settle?

I’m a 44 yo man - why would I give a shit if you date older women.

I routinely date beautiful women in their twenties. You want to know why? I spend my free time in the gym, not pogging and punting on AOL.

If you want to date a certain type of person you have to ask yourself why that person would want to date you. Honestly you sound boring as fuck. Tinder is a tool. Use it or don’t but if you don’t want to use it don’t complain about it. Okc and POF absolutely are garbage now but that only leaves you bumble and hinge. Maybe CMB if you want to talk to some dude in India pretending to be a woman near you... otherwise you are going to have to take yourself outside of the house., away from the computer, and meet someone. Or stick to OLD, whatever you have to balls for.

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