How do introverts flirt?

I don't have big eyes, and they are normally half closed, but the way I do it is by opening them, completely focused in the nose and the eyes of the girl. (1)

I try to imagine a tasty meal and by just doing that, I tend to project a deeper interest into what the girl is saying. (2)

Aside from that, I try to direct my ears towards the girl's general direction whenever I'm not seeing her.

I tend to complicate my speech in order to be understood in a totally clear way on a daily basis, however when I'm with her, I dumb down my discourse, regardless if she understand the things I have to say or not, in the end, we actually have all the time in the world to clarify anything she wants to hear. (3)

So through this I manage to buy extremely effective time for whatever I have to say.

The girl has been on a relationship with me since '06, it's now my wife and we have 2 kids together.

This stuff works, trust me.

Disclaimer.
1. Don't be a prick, don't over do that, otherwise you'll be looking like a creepy dude.

  1. It's not that I don't care about what she usually says, but at this specific time I only need to emphasize that. Remember that non-verbal communication is the strongest type of communication.

  2. Mostly because it has to do with HER, not with me, I want to make her comfortable, I want that the world disappears for a moment just to see her, just to hear her.

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