How long are you open to waiting for sex when dating someone new?

30F - I think it depends on what kind of dates we’re going on. If it’s daytime dates I guess a few, because obviously it’s hard to turn a coffee date into sex, but if it were more than 3 I’d start to question why we weren’t meeting at night. If our first date was drinks I’d expect to have sex then, or on the second date tops.

I personally find all this talk about waiting longer to have sex if you want a relationship thing to be sexist crap tbh. I have had sex on the first date with men who I then proceeded to date for years, with men who I dated for a couple months, and with men I never saw again. It’s just like anything else. You’re two consenting adults. If you want to, do it. It’s fun! How soon you engage in sex should not in any way change someone’s perception of you, especially since they’re also having sex with you (duh), and if it does then you probably don’t want to date them.

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