How long does frigging sex last? I cum in 20 seconds if I stroke faster in the bathroom. I know ex is different than masturbation as it requires effort. Can you guys tell me how long it takes for you to ejaculate with masturbation and sex?

TL:DR AT THE BOTTOM

Hey, I'm (17M) new to sex, in my little experience (no more than 20-30 sexual experiences), it all depends to the person but I'm gonna share my personal experiences and times.

When I used to masturbate (I don't now because doing sexual stuff with my gf is completely enough pleasure) I used to Cum pretty quick, and I mean really quick, I find a good porn, skip to a part of choice and in less than 2 minutes im done for. Usually when masturabing it feels really good because you know what you are doing and you have instant feedback. But I really like to experiment so I have gone up to 10-15 mins by edging, meaning I go until the very end and stop, wait a few minutes and continue, but most times I'm not that patient.

I have received hand jobs by my gf and it depends on how good she is, I can literally go on for tens of minutes, still feeling pleasure but not as much as masturbating. If I want to cum faster I guide her to do exactly what I want. Good Handjobs make you cum in like 10 minutes.

Don't have much experience with BJs, haven't cum from them, but I've gotten pretty close. They feel amazing even if the girl doesn't know what she's doing. Maybe if she wants me to cum there I can finish in about 3-5 minutes.

Now sex, it all depends on the position and foreplay, at least in my experience. If i do a ass long foreplay before that (hjs and/or bjs etc) I can finish really quick from penetration in any position (2-5 mins). If I don't do that much of foreplay I can easily go to 10-15 minutes if I'm doing only one position. If I'm doing multiple, I can go up to 30 mins. Also, it really makes a difference if you are going in with or without a condom, I can usually double or even triple my time with a rubber on, but the pleasure is significantly smaller for both parties. So far for positions I know what works best for me and my partner but you have to try it out yourself so you can decide, when you are doing it for the first time I'm strongly recommending missionary. The best thing to do is to not end sex after you finished if you think the other person isn't fully satisfied, Its kinda rude and annoying, it's harder for women to reach orgasm so make sure to try to please her after/before sex, either with hand or oral, I do that and trust me it's worth it.

TL:DR Age 17, male

Masturbation - 2-3 mins (can go up to 10-15) You know you best so you can make yourself cum really easy or tease (edge) yourself to make you last longer

Handjobs - 5-15 mins (had gone up to 30-40) Depends on how experienced the hj giver is, the more you guide her the faster you will finish

Blowjobs - probably 5 min (not experienced) Havent finished from bj, also depends on the experience the giver has.

Sex - 5-30 (depends on position, mood, foreplay, protection) It all depends on the position, eachone works different for everyone, you can last a lot longer with a condom on.

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