Did you follow metoo at all, it's not common sense for far too many people.

There are many people out there that don't understand what consent even is.

Too many people think Rape is a violent attack that happens in an alleyway, and if it's not that, it's not rape. People think that husbands can't rape their wives, like regardless of the wife's consent, it's just sex because that is what's owed to the husband.

Not only do we need to teach young boys to not rape, we need to teach them what rape is, what consent is, how to get consent, teach them to like girls from a young age, not to objectify/sexualize them, the hatred for girls/femininity starts very young and we largely do nothing to stop it, many people even encourage young boys to hate anything they associate with "girly"

All these things, leads to signals being ignored, voices being ignored and rapes occurring.

Look at this sexual violence pyramid. We gotta start at the bottom, that's what we need to teach what's not okay.