How to find a man who is not sex obsessed?

First one had a new girlfriend for a few months who he even traveled to visit on study abroad. He broke up with me over what I can only assume was a bad makeout session because I can't figure out a different reason. He is now married to someone else. The second guy who was the abusive one and told me all he wanted was sex, dated someone for 2 years after me and is dating someone else who I think he's dated for three years. The guy after that I actually dated for a while and we never had sex, no idea what he is doing. The guy I lost my virginity to I think has had at least one or two short relationships I think but nothing serious. He told me though that was what he wanted and certainly acted like it too so idk what his problem is. I really liked him.

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