How many friends do you have?

I have my childhood friend who recently moved to a different state. We saw each other here and there but he's always someone I can trust. Friends for the past 16 years.

Another friend I've had the past 2 years has gone into a deep spiritual journey. At first I was happy for her but now it has drastically changed. She believes her ideals and way of living is "right" ...meaning I am wrong. Now she talks down to me. I currently limit the conversations we have. She also recently moved to another state.

I have another very sweet friend. She lives close. We hardly see each other but I always have a good time when we do get to hang out. We both just flake a lot but we know we care so there's no ill feelings. She is the older sister of friend number 2.

Then we have friend number 4 who happens to be my boyfriend and best friend. I love him dearly and we share many hobbies. We game together. We just watched an episode of Buffy together. But we are long distance. We lived together for 11 months and share many amazing memories but currently he is 2k miles away.

For reference, I don't socialize. I don't drink. I don't party. I don't go out. I'm a 28 year old female. And no I don't have poor social skills nor am I awkward or afraid of social encounters. I choose to live this way because I don't really care for people.

Sooo I'd say I have 4 friends. Who am I closest to? Ironically the one that lives the furthest away. I have "hey how are you" type friends but only 4 I trust with my thoughts and feelings. Everyone else is... filler.

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