How many people on here have taken on the advice of working out in the gym?

Have you found it to improve your prospects in the dating world?

When I was completely and totally obsessed with it: dramatic yes. I had no friends, I was hated at work, but for the first time in my life random girls were flirting with me just because I was ripped. Couldn't fucking believe it. Lost my virginity to a girl who, when I took my shirt off, exclaimed "nice!" She asked me to flex in the shower once. Fuck.

That was years of tracking every calorie and hitting the gym extremely hard. Not being invited anywhere really helps with with maintaining a clean diet as well.

I still workout hard, just not as hard as before, and the attention is all gone now. Maybe its narcissistic but I really cherish those memories.

I'm kind of irritated that steroids aren't legal.

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