it has nothing to do with the person being a woman or man.

if you have ridden rollercoasters every single day of your life, you won't experience the jitters that someone who is riding for the first time will feel. that's a fact of human nature.

you can have no preference for partners who are inexperienced, that's fine. but it's normal and okay for others who have had very few partners to have a preference for someone who would feel similarly about sex as them. as something you feel very excited and anxious about.

and it's also okay to be inexperienced and prefer an experienced partner. all combinations are okay as long as we are not dehumanising people like calling them sluts.