How do married men resist the urge to sleep with other woman?[Serious]

Been married 30 years. The first 3 - 5 years I feel tend to be the toughest. Using your word “urge” does go both ways.

Actually I found, for lack of a better word, Predators, male and female. When they find a married individual, that person is the perfect one nighter. If the married person were to have a little too much to drink, making wrong choices increases dramatically. There are other factors, but the single individual has nothing to lose. They get what they want and are confident the married individual won’t talk.

Yes, I found myself in potential affairs. What stopped me was I always kept in mind, how would I feel if my wife were to do the same. Also I truly respected her, before we married I committed to myself, if I ever were to want to wander, I’d get divorced.

As years went by our relationship transitioned. I can’t speak for her, but I really appreciated her as a individual. Of course I loved her, but there are other steps in a marriage as years pass.

Bottom line, in general, if you’re married or single men need to think with the big head before the little one. Actions have consequences.

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