How do I move on?

I didnt realise I had her on a pedestal, I have been trying to get out and go to bars, playing open mics and stuff but I feel a bit to old and out of place at these collage campuses where everyone knows each other. I have tinder but I feel like a fish out of water with that as well. I'm trying not to sulk, I actually have no record of her on my phone except for in my blocked contacts list. I wouldn't want to reconcile if she reached out, it would just be hell. I'm trying not to need anyone, like I said, it's just isolating without anyone around. I feel like the best way to move on would be to physically move but unfortunately that cant happen over night. How long did it take you to get over it completely? Cuz at this point I just want to be the best version of myself that I saw when I was with her that I could never be around her

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