Yeah, but, people have jobs and really are just there for the paycheque. What you're talking about is basically putting that job on the line to stand up to a social injustice. If her manager doesn't "want to deal with it" she literally loses. If that dudes insane, and does this every tournament, but you don't know that, and she's there every tournament, and can't exactly not show up to work...You can see where I'm going with this.

It's unfortunately never that simple. I've got a thick skull, a low tolerance for bullshit, absolutely nothing to lose, and get a raging hard-on for putting bullies in their place, so had I just enough coffee in me, and wasn't too high, I'd like to think I'd lay into him. But even then if the dudes covered in tats and has 50 lbs on me...