45(M). Married 11years. Our sex life is on acid right now. We are fucking like never before in my life. Our bodies keep getting grosser. I have some great ideas for you. 1. Go to the lingerie store. She wants to feel vampy and sexy again. Buy her knee high socks on Amazon, a fun pink wig, sexy black jump suit, leggings, thongs. She will dress up for you, it may take two hours. But she will feel beautiful and emerge ready to consume you. 2. Another approach is to deny my wife the chance to see anything at all. Women want to have a light or candle on. Meanwhile, my wife wants to check her hair every 15 seconds just to make sure she still looks good. Screw that. You want the darkest room possible, so dark that you have trouble finding each other, and then you never let go without fucking her within an inch of her life. 3. Buy some good lube not KY). All kinds of possibilities there. 4. Best position ever - 69. She is cumming and squirting several time before we even start screwing. This is the way you tame a woman. She will be begging, pleading for it again the next day. 5. Get vulnerable with yourself, your own body. Let her explore you. Fingers up your ass, blowjob that stretches for hours. 6. Oh yeah, all that crap about romance in the other replies is pure BS. She wants to feel dangerous again. Indulge her. The romance will come naturally to you when you have fucked and teased each other until 4 in the morning and you can't even speak because your tongue has been working so hard. That's how you say it with flowers. On the way to work the next day, barely alive, you dump all manner of flowers and gifts and filthy reminders of the night before written into a card to her. She will smile devilishly when she reads it.