How to not lose hope as a woman who loves sex, but it feels like it isn’t a game made for her?

I’ve slept with a lot of guys. My first boyfriend I dated was for 4 years & I lost my virginity to him and we had awful sex. He was very selfish and didn’t care about taking care of me. After four long years of awful sex, I left and started exploring with everyone I wanted to. Except, I’d discuss the types of things I wanted done before I’d hook up with them. Promise you there’s maybe like one other guy that didn’t make me cum but every single guy I’ve slept with has been sexually compatible with me and made me cum over and over. My point is, find out the things you like or are interested in, and find someone who likes doing the same things. For my hookups, I always found guys that were into pleasing women. You can find an amazing dom that will take over and make sure you cum like a good girl and enjoy every second of it. Or you can fine a submissive guy that’ll do anything you ask and even more to make sure you get off over and over. I do not regret any of my hookups. They’ve all been amazing and I’m happy I’ve explored my sexuality. I promise you there’s many many manyyyy men out there that would love to take care of your needs and some don’t even want anything in return. Life’s too short to have shitty sex. You definitely need to turn it into a party for yourself.

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