How often do you scene vs have sex and fool around?

We don't really have scenes. I'm just always in charge, and sometimes we do things that require more time and props and sometimes we don't.

It's all over the place. Normally, we have sex about once a week, but tease and things like that throughout the week. I also monitor his masturbation, usually by having him report to me. Sometimes by having him do it in front of me. Although not much lately. But that'll probably change as I've had a special request to bring back in person monitoring.

Then sometimes we just rutt. This week we've fucked about 3 or 4 times already, so there's that. All our sex is kinky, we don't do vanilla. Sometimes it's just kinky talk, usually there's pain involved, sometimes restraints, usually I'm doing some form of conditioning (hold position, cum in command, cum in different circumstances, etc.). And of course he calls me daddy whenever and wherever his bratty ass can get away with it, which thrills me to no end.

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