How do you get over the fear that the attractive man/woman you are seeing has more options than you do and will choose someone else?

Like another commenter said, you're infatuated. In your mind, he's this amazing unicorn who's out of your league. In reality, you're just two people who click with eachother and have a budding connection. Get to know him better, and take him off of the pedestal you have him on. If you're concerned that you're overly attached, make some distractions. Doesnt always mean date other people, but continue to spend time with friends, focus on hobbies, school, your career, etc. Don't let this guy be the center of your universe, and quit being so hard on yourself! I'm sure you're great in many ways, but by your post I'm guessing you have some self confidence issues. If you can, work on those. Good luck, and take it easy on yourself ❤.

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