How do you get over someone?

Sorry for your loss man, I know it's hard but think about it this way. If you love someone, you want them to be happy. Would she have wanted you to spend your whole life living in sadness, or go on a live a happy life with someone else.

Think about the roles reversed, If you were with someone, would you want them to never move on and live in sadness the rest of their life if you passed away, or would you want them to mourn for a bit then move on to be happy. If you love someone you want them to be happy whether it's with, or without you. I've never been through this so sorry if it doesn't help but it's something I've thought about a fair bit.

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