How pornography affected your sex life and advice to a virgin

even though i’m a woman it’s nice to watch sometimes but easy to get addicted to like a drug and i’ve had quite a few problems with it and partners my ex would fuck me and cum in literally 10 strokes and one day we fucked i left came back an hour later he was on his phone went to safari forgot to delete his history and watched like 20 pornos while i was gone mind u this man always came so quick so i thoight he was satisfied so why would he need to watch porn after already cumming to me? made me feel like he uses me to nut first then he can last longer watching the pornos and i was just being used but i don’t know forsure it’s just how i felt and another man sees anal on pornos and they make it look easy it’s not easy and someone who’s very tiny he wants to put it in my ass so bad but it’s very very painful for someone who’s new to it we’ve tried weve practiced and i just can get it past the tip he’s very very big so it’s painful but it’s a fantasy of his and the girls asses stretch out super far causs they’ve done it a million times and trained it literally to open that wide it’s not logical and it puts false images in his mind like i’m all for it but i feel shitty because i try and it hurts so bad i feel like he’s dissapointed because i literally die in pain and it’s a big fantasy of his so i mean it’s good and all flr people who aren’t in relationships but people who are seem to still wanna watch it which doesn’t make sense to me i don’t watch porn maybe i’m weird but i look at videos of me and my man to get turned on it bothers me but i can’t do anything about it

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