Wow thank you, this makes me feel alot better about it, especially the way you suggested approaching it. I guess its one thing building up the courage, and another actually following thru. While people helped me build up the courage one here, you definitely put me at ease in terms of how to go about asking respectfully. Like the whole “im embarrassed to ask but would you do this with me” would be perfect for me because its very real and exactly how im feeling. And the fact that you are an example of someone who is 100% not into that stuff but are open to trying it, means hopefully more people such as my GF would be open to it as well.

Thank you so much this was an amazing read :)!!