how do i react to this from my dad? (explanation below)

My mom threatened to kick me out bc I wouldn't tell her who gave me a hickey and I told her it was none of her business

I had been out all night I had told her I didn't know when I was coming home or I was staying out all night can't remember and she didn't ask any extra questions so I thought there was no problem so when I got home around 8 am I found out she had called everyone I hangout with and blew up their phones but not once tried to contact me myself

I was 19 or almost 19 at the time and had never had a boyfriend before and this was the first person I had ever done anything with including kissing but I was still a virgin

I was under the impression that my parents were super racist to the point I thought they would disown me for like African American Men but that's what I like but I just hid it from them so I didn't feel like I could tell my mom about who I was seeing so I didn't but eventually I did and it was no problem ...

I was surprised because people in my family were either disowned by one or more parents or just looked at as nasty for dating outside their race

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