How’s your relationship with your mother?

Ya I’ve wondered if my attraction to women was mommy issues or not. I definitely do not have a healthy relationship with my mom and haven’t ever in my life. I think attraction to women is independent of her though, sparing that lesbian apparently runs pretty deep in the family. Two of my mom’s cousins are butch. It would have worked out better for me if one of them at least were more femme so I had had an example of various types of lesbians growing up, not just ones that “acted like men.” Not that men act in any which way anyway, it just takes a lot of maturing to learn that. So it’s interesting others have bad relationships with their moms too, I don’t know if it’s related at all but I am ready to commiserate on it with my wife (non currently in existence)

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