A true Dom can't be forced and doesn't need your instruction. He is a Dom because he comes by the traits and frame of mind naturally. A true Dom would be telling you what HE likes not the other way around. A man that's confident in his sexual aggression, his role, and takes pleasure in taking charge is a true Dom because he's made it believable.

You can't mold your boyfriend into a true Dom because you've already witnessed his frame of mind and his truth. You would know he's only performing the things he's heard you recite in order to satisfy you. If that air of genuine satisfaction in the role he's chosen is missing, it loses believability and that's much needed to feel it's the real deal.

Not everybody is built for that nor does every body want that. If that's what you really want, maybe you should seek it out specifically so you are both living your truths together.

Dont change someone, find someone you dont have to change .