Ttc, loss and miscarriage has thought me never to pressure anyone to have an absolute or have a child either way. I always thought that if my 16 year old future daughter got pregnant, I would strongly encourage an abortion. If she wants to have a baby and has the desire to be a mom, go for it. If she wants to abort, then so be it. I will support her either way.

TTC has made me very strongly pro-choice. I was raised with the scary thought that kids would ruin a woman’s life if the life conditions weren’t perfect - money, spouse etc. I think that’s all crap now. Have kids when you have the desire to.

I got off birth control in September 2020 and it’s 2023 now.