How do you know when enough is enough?

If you have kids. Dont get separated. Kids see parents as a single entity. Separation is always devastating for them and that loss will be felt by you both if you guys are sane. If things dont work out with your partner. Paying attention and spending more time with kids can get you along. But this is an ideal case and things can be different and conditional.

If you dont have kids, you know it when you are totally consumed by the relationship; one sided efforts diminished to an extent that you dont even try to make things work. Its a good idea to let go. It will be extremely hard if you love your partner, but its not about the other person any more. There is another being in this relationship which is yourself. You have to take care of that self too.. take pity on that self and let go.

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