I have a strange way to do that...

At night when I’m already in bed, I picture that person calling me and saying “wake up! I’m in trouble! insert a different context every time and now I have this body in the backseat of my car will you help me?”

I’ve play that not only with guys but also with family members and friends...

If I’m like full on “ok! I’ll bring kerosene and my circular saw! Meet me at insert a safe place” then I really like that person...

If I’m more like “I think you should go to the police...” then it’s like “I like you enough to not call the police myself but not that much”...

There is also sometimes when (still picturing the call in the first place) I don’t answer the phone... I know the phone call is about getting away with murder... but I still don’t answer...

That’s how I know when im gradually liking or disliking somebody...