How has the world treated you as a shy / introverted black woman?

Yeah it’s fucking crazy. He was literally spreading rumors about me in Spanish right in front of my face thinking he was slick. Eventually I had groups of people laughing at me as I walked by (is this middle school?) and I ignored it for months because I don’t care if people don’t like me. Join the club, but then they spread rumors that I’m some sexual pervert and was looking at other women and that’s what stuck, and eventually dumb asses who knew nothing about me hated me, all because I “rejected” him lmfao. Apparently it’s really easy to spread rumors about shy people since nobody knew me as a person.

I’ve never dealt with people spreading rumors about me before, so that was new. These people were all in their early/ mid 20s. Like grow up.

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