How would be the best way for me (18 F) to talk to my boyfriend (18 M, who is circumcised) about not wanting to circumcise our son?

Husband is circumcised, he wanted our son circumcised. I had no real opinion and said if it was something that he was really stuck on it was his decision. His mom said be careful because when she got him circumcised he screamed with every diaper changed and she was traumatized and it was awful. (Keep in mind that was 26 years ago)

He did the research and we got my son circumcised. Total fine with every diaper change, kid didn’t even notice the difference. Found out there’s 2 techniques they use and one is less painful and more accurate.

It’s a relatively easy conversation when both sides are mature and just trying to make an important decision about your child. Because those conversations are going to come up and you can’t be afraid to talk about stuff when you have a child together.

No real advice just experience

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