How would you describe my preference?

Yeah, I was at first really excited to find a term I thought described me, but then I read about it and was like, NOPE! I like using a label because it's easier than having to go through a lengthy explanation every time I talk to someone about it. It's also easier to Google. ;)

Just to play the devil's advocate here, are we actually decent people? Or are we shallow for being attracted to intelligence and rejecting dumb dudes? I mean, I feel like that's a much more valid reason to turn someone down, but then, I am biased... Maybe I'm overthinking it.

But I do wonder, if valuing intelligence over looks makes you a good person, do you still get to claim good-personhood if you're doing it, not to be charitable, but because you're sexually attracted to it, and are thus at least partly talking with your clit/dick? Becasue, I mean, I do believe looks shouldn't be as important as they are, but that stance is pretty easy for me to take since I don't have to sacrifice any sexual satisfaction in order to have it (vs someone who wants to "be a good person" but is honestly only attracted to super model physical attributes). But then again, maybe there are some people who are turned on by people who, I don't know, volunteer to feed the homeless.

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