how would u detach urself from this emotionally detach urself from this situation

Sorry I just had a question. U mentioned that it sounds like he liked playing mind games, and causing me pain. Why do u think that is tho? like why did he enjoy it? obviously not normal. but like generally why is that a thing people do like hurt someone for fun especially without feeling remorse. I’m asking bc i can’t make sense of it. I even asked him why he enjoys it, and he eventually said “u know what hurting is fun. i like hurting u cuz ur a lost cause. nothing i say or do will ever help” and there was another time where he said liked seeing me suffer and it makes him happy. idk if he was joking, but he kept cyberbullying me knowing it was hurting me and gaslighting so maybe there is some truth to what he said idk.

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