It's been alright, having a weird time in the Harry Potter fandom though. It's just this weird bizarro world of a fandom if you are a straight guy. As most of the fandom is populated by women oddly enough. So the rules in the group are a bit biased. As the rules of how to act and what is being mean is very different compared to a more varied group. To put it bluntly it's really arbitrary, I'm not sure if it's just the Harry Potter fandom though.

I mean again to put it bluntly, a lot of the Harry potter fangirls are a bit sensitive. Not even talking about having to avoid some types of jokes. It's just like they might be older, but they still have the mentality of a high schooler. They are a bit hypocritical with how they talk about how other people are mean to them, while not being much better themselves. You can be coming in with a rational comment and some of them will try to start shite when there is none, and then act like you are the bad guy. It does not go over as well if you are straight guy. As they like to think that they can act a certain way while you cannot stand up for yourself without looking like an ass.