Hubby (27M) and i (27F) from LA/OC, CA debating on moving into new home (rental) with his mom and brothers....again.

He and his Mother are delusional. Your utilities will not be cheaper. I have family out there and they run the AC all summer and the heater all winter. The water board is corrupt AF so good luck saving money there.

And what about work? If the kitchen issue is rough now imagine what dealing with dinner after a 2 hour soul crushing commute will be like. I don’t hate Palmdale but AFAIK if you aren’t in aerospace the job market isn’t great.

Generally the people out there seem to be nice but there are also a lot of desert republicans in the AV. God help your mother in law if she happens to cross any of them.

It is probably one of the few places two kitchens would be affordable though.

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