I completely understand! I have had multiple girlfriends cry when I told them. Many relationships that did not work out because of my.... Proclivities... My fiance has even told me that her biggest fear is losing me to a penis... But she has always accepted me, and has really helped me grow into the person I truly am! We have have had many long talks about how my sexuality fits into our relationship, and I have made sure time and time again that this was not an issue! She has helped me explore this side of myself more than I ever thought possible! Although, in exploring this, we ended up in the situation we are now. With miscommunications and hurt feelings... But at the end of the day, I am 100% committed to her and have no intention to cheat and definitely to never become a woman (For which we have talked about many times!!)

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However, with everything going on, now it has become an issue. Which among other things really hurts. Here is the woman for whom spent years telling me she liked me for the thing that would drive most women away. She has told me for years that I am safe to be open with her, and to reveal to her all aspects of myself, for which I have always been hesitant. And now that I finally have given her my all, this happens...